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There Is No Other Shoe to Drop: Learning to Trust When Life Feels Calm
Have you ever caught yourself holding your breath when things finally start to feel... good? Maybe your relationship feels smoother than...

DeMonta Whiting
Jun 244 min read


Why Being Nice Is Making Your Relationship Harder
By: DeMonta Whiting, LMFT There’s a pattern I see far too often in relationships—especially among high-functioning professionals,...

DeMonta Whiting
Jun 124 min read


“Are You Helping… or Just Avoiding Guilt?” Why Parents (and Partners) Need to Examine Their Real Motivations
by DeMonta Whiting, LMFT Let’s get honest for a minute. When you do something for your child—or your partner, or even your boss—are you...

DeMonta Whiting
Jun 44 min read


Stop Reading Minds. Start Setting Boundaries: How Clear Communication and Consistent Limits Can Save Your Relationship—and Your Sanity.
Let’s talk about something that comes up in therapy more often than you might think: relationships that slowly start to feel like...

DeMonta Whiting
May 234 min read


Stop Taking the Blame for Other People’s Bullsh*t
Let me tell you something I’ve seen over and over again in high-performing professionals: the tendency to carry the weight of the world,...

DeMonta Whiting
May 194 min read


You’re Not Lazy—You’re Exhausted, Isolated, and Overdue for Real Connection
Let’s get one thing straight: you’re not lazy. You’re tired. Stretched thin. Running on fumes. But instead of naming it for what it is—...

DeMonta Whiting
May 144 min read


When Work Becomes Your Worth: Reclaiming Yourself Before It’s Too Late
By a Therapist Who Gets It Let’s talk. Not about performance reviews or KPIs or how to structure your next raise request. I want to talk...

DeMonta Whiting
May 84 min read


Learning to Say No: The Emotional Equivalent of Driving Manual
By DeMonta Whiting, LMFT There’s a reason setting boundaries feels so hard: most of us weren’t taught how to do it. We were taught to be...

DeMonta Whiting
May 44 min read


Set Boundaries Without Losing Yourself
In many relationships—especially those involving blended families, caregiving, or emotionally intense dynamics—it’s easy to confuse love...

DeMonta Whiting
May 44 min read


You Speak the Truth at Work-Why is It So Hard at Home?
As a medical professional, you’re trained to deliver difficult news with clarity and compassion. You tell patients what they need to...

DeMonta Whiting
Apr 304 min read


How to Say No and Not Feel Bad about It
Many of us struggle to say no to others, especially people we love. People pleasers on the other hand, struggle to say no to anyone. A...

DeMonta Whiting
Jun 11, 20247 min read
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